Our Executive Board Leadership

2024 Board of Directors

Emotions Matter Inc. is run by a volunteer board of directors comprised of individuals with lived experience of borderline personality disorder, family members affected by BPD, those who have lost loved ones to BPD, and health care professionals who work within the BPD community.

Each board member is committed to Emotions Matter’s vision to create a world in which all individuals impacted by BPD have access to treatment and resources to achieve recovery.

Our Staff

Paula Tusiani-Eng, Founder and Director

  • Paula Tusiani-Eng, Co-Founder and Director of Strategic Growth at Emotions Matter Inc., a non-profit organization dedicated to educate, support, and advocate for those impacted by borderline personality disorder (BPD).

    She received her Master's in Divinity from Union Theological Seminary in 2001 and her Master's in Social Work from Adelphi University in 2014. She received her Certificate in Non-Profit Management from Adelphi University in 2019.

    Paula is co-author with her mother, Bea Tusiani, of Remnants of a Life on Paper: A Mother and Daughter's Struggle with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). She lost her younger sister, Pamela Tusiani, who suffered from BPD at the age of 23 in 2001.

    Her passion for BPD education, resources and advocacy is in her sister's memory to help others survive and thrive with BPD with access to mental health care needed to achieve a meaningful recovery. Paula lives with her husband and four children in Garden City, New York.

  • Natalie Gutierrez, LMSW (She/ Her) is a Licensed Psychotherapist within a group private practice. Natalie also serves as a volunteer committee member for the Latino Social Work Coalition & Scholarship Fund, an organization that fundraises for scholarships for Latinx Master’s in Social Work students to increase the number of Latinx Social Workers in the field.

    Natalie received her Masters in Social Work from Fordham University Graduate School of Social Services and her Bachelors of Arts in Psychology from SUNY College at Old Westbury.

    Natalie is passionate about working with and serving children and adolescents, BIPOC individuals, immigrant communities, LGBTQIA+ communities. Additionally, Natalie works with clients through processing trauma, grief, anxiety, depression, life transitions, women’s health issues, women’s reproductive health, and relationship issues.

    Natalie is passionate about breaking the stigma around mental health and demystifying mental health treatment so that individuals feel empowered to seek support. Natalie is passionate about supporting individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder. Natalie is excited to be joining the Emotions Matter team as a part-time Program Coordinator to support the mission of providing support, advocacy and education around Borderline Personality Disorder.

Kristin Fahlbusch, Peer Support Specialist

Alyssa Gross , Peer Worker 2/Peer Trainer

  • Kristin is honored, grateful and humbled to serve as Emotions Matter's first Peer Support Specialist. 
Volunteering as a Peer Support Group Facilitator for Emotions Matter during the COVID-19 pandemic was an immeasurably inspiring and fulfilling way for her to move forward toward peace during the most challenging time of her life thus far. 
Knowing she was encouraging others during their most vulnerable moments in some of the same ways her support system had rallied around her during her mental health crisis was a major catalyst for her healing journey.

    In her experience with BPD, she’s come to accept that she can be hurting and healing at the same time. 
Her hope as Emotions Matter's Peer Support Specialist is to work to expand our services to help even more people living with BPD and achieve new heights in the BPD peer space.  

  • For the past five years, Alyssa has dedicated herself to the healing process and is in functional recovery from borderline personality disorder (a diagnosis that she received in 2018).

    Part of Alyssa’s life worth living includes being a peer facilitator and trainer with Emotions Matter where she's able to use the skills of making meaning and contribution within the BPD community. In her free time, Alyssa enjoys playing guitar, being in nature, creating memes, writing, and playing with her adorable cat (Sky). She is grateful to be part of the Emotions Matter team! You can reach her via email at peers@emotionsmatterbpd.org.

Elizabeth King, Administrative Assistant

Christina Byrnes, Bookkeeper/Administrative Assistant

  • Elizabeth (she/her) began working with Emotions Matter, Inc. in 2024 as an Administrative Assistant and is passionate about the mission to educate and advocate for those impacted by BPD.

    Elizabeth has a Bachelor of Arts degree in Human Services and has spent the past seven years working in immigration law. She is dedicated to equality and equity for all people and is excited to leverage her administrative skills and support the future of Emotions Matter, Inc.

    In her free time, Elizabeth likes to hang out with her family, snuggle her dogs, read three books at a time, and binge watch reality television.

  • Christina Byrnes serves as the Bookkeeper for Emotions Matter.  She has a Bachelor’s of Science degree in accounting from Fordham University and a Master’s of Science degree in secondary education from St. John’s University.  She has over twenty years of experience working as a secondary mathematics educator.  Christina is grateful for the opportunity to be a part of the Emotions Matter team to connect and empower those impacted by Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and to raise awareness about BPD.